How Cool Is It To Be You: Douglas McCoy on Confidence, Identity, and the Power of Being Real

In a world that constantly pressures people to fit in, perform, and conform, Douglas McCoy delivers a refreshing and deeply human message through his book How Cool Is It To Be You. This is not just a book about self-belief—it is a call to reclaim identity, rediscover personal value, and live life with confidence, clarity, and authenticity.

Written in Douglas McCoy’s signature ReCreation style, How Cool Is It To Be You reminds readers of a simple but often forgotten truth: you don’t need to become someone else to succeed—you need to fully become yourself.

This book speaks to entrepreneurs, professionals, creatives, students, and anyone who has ever felt pressure to live according to expectations that weren’t truly their own.

You Were Never Meant to Be a Copy

At the heart of How Cool Is It To Be You is a powerful idea—comparison is one of the greatest thieves of personal fulfillment. Douglas McCoy explains how modern society conditions people to measure their worth through external validation, social approval, and constant comparison.

Instead of asking “Who should I become?”, McCoy encourages readers to ask:

• Who am I really?

• What makes me different?

• How can my uniqueness become my strength?

The book challenges the belief that success has a single formula. McCoy shows that the most fulfilled individuals are those who embrace their individuality rather than suppress it.

Identity and the ReCreation Mindset

As the creator of the Life ReCreation philosophy, Douglas McCoy weaves this mindset naturally throughout the book. He explains that identity is not fixed—it can be redesigned, refined, and rebuilt.

How Cool Is It To Be You encourages readers to:

• Release labels placed on them by others

• Let go of outdated self-images

• ReCreate their identity based on truth, not fear

McCoy emphasizes that self-acceptance is not complacency—it is the foundation for growth. When people stop fighting who they are, they unlock the energy needed to evolve.

Confidence Without Arrogance

One of the book’s strongest contributions is its reframing of confidence. Douglas McCoy separates true confidence from ego, attention-seeking, or dominance.

According to McCoy, real confidence means:

• Being comfortable in your own skin

• Speaking your truth without apology

• Respecting others without diminishing yourself

The book teaches that confidence grows naturally when people stop pretending. Authenticity, not performance, becomes the source of self-belief.

Living Authentically in a Noisy World

Douglas McCoy also addresses the emotional fatigue created by constant noise—social media, unrealistic success stories, and external expectations. How Cool Is It To Be You invites readers to step back and reconnect with their inner compass.

The book encourages:

• Intentional decision-making

• Emotional self-awareness

• Values-driven living

McCoy reminds readers that fulfillment is not found in chasing trends, but in aligning actions with inner truth.

Practical Wisdom You Can Apply Daily

While deeply philosophical, the book remains practical. Douglas McCoy offers reflection prompts, mindset shifts, and real-life insights that help readers apply the message immediately.

Readers learn how to:

• Identify internal conflicts

• Replace self-criticism with clarity

• Build habits that reflect their true identity

This makes How Cool Is It To Be You not just inspirational, but actionable.

Why This Book Matters Today

In a time when burnout, anxiety, and identity confusion are rising globally, Douglas McCoy’s message feels more relevant than ever. The book speaks directly to people who feel disconnected from themselves while appearing “successful” on the outside.

McCoy’s reminder is simple yet profound:

You don’t need permission to be yourself. You only need courage.

Becoming Fully You

How Cool Is It To Be You is a celebration of individuality, resilience, and personal truth. Douglas McCoy doesn’t ask readers to become extraordinary—he invites them to stop denying who they already are.

For anyone on a journey of self-discovery, personal growth, or Life ReCreation, this book serves as both a mirror and a guide.